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Mia Amber Davis

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Mia Amber Davis - a Woman I Love

One day in 2000 a friend asked me to go on a blind date with a friend of his girlfriend’s. Knowing the disaster that this kind of thing always turns out to be the answer was a hell no! I stood firm, I had the courage of my convictions and there was no way I was going to be coerced, bribed, bullied or otherwise browbeaten into stepping out with a strange woman.

So, a few nights later we’re on the date (okay to be fair he said we would go to my favorite steak place and he would pay, I was poor, I needed the meal what can I tell you) and after dinner we go see the movie Road Trip. It was okay, a little too frat boy-ish for me but I perked up when about halfway into the movie a gorgeous woman appeared on the screen.

She was a goddess who turned a run-of-the-mill comedy and forgettable date into a pivotal moment. Seeing her on the screen made me think even harder about my preferences as regards to the opposite sex and made it easier for me to admit some hard truths to myself.

Later on, as we walked our dates home, we discussed the movie. Or rather, they discussed the movie. I couldn’t stop thinking about and talking about the scenes with my new crush and how lucky the actor was who got to be with her. The ladies we were with looked at me in amazement.

“You like that?” My date asked, unbelieving. “She was so…big. You really like that?”

I hesitated a moment before I answered.

“I love that!”

It was the first time I’d said it out loud. And I meant it.

My date and I didn't speak much in the few minutes it took to walk them to their apartment and I never saw those ladies again. I didn’t much care. I was strangely proud of myself. Like the first time you pay your own rent, or when you tell someone you love them for the first time. That kind of proud. Life changing, turning point, one more step toward maturity proud.

I saw Mia Amber sporadically after that, an ad here, a Road Trip rerun there, but she always had a very special place in my heart. She opened my eyes to the incredible beauty of a plus-size woman and the incredible stupidity of not acknowledging who you are and what you like.

I never had the pleasure of meeting her or of even seeing her in person but when I heard that she passed last year I felt the special kind of sadness reserved for the passing of someone who changed your life, even if they never knew it. Everything I’ve read about her says that she was an incredibly kind, loving and beautiful person.

I’m sure she was.

Thank you Mia Amber for being you and inspiring a young fool to be true to himself.

Mia Amber Davis (1975-2011) a woman I love.

Coming soon...Samantha Irby, another Woman I Love

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